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A Passion for Parties
Celebrating the release of a new book, renowned tastemaker Carolyne Roehm chatted with us about the emerging trends in entertaining and the essential elements of a fantastic party
by Holly H. Goff
Photos by Sylvie Becquet


Carolyne Roehm is an authority on matters of style, from fashion to entertaining to gardening. The author, designer, and party guru began her career as a designer at Oscar de la Renta, then turned her attention to floral, product, and interior design, developing the "Carolyne Roehm look" that is so easily identified in her events. Here, she shares advice to help you create your own elegant affairs.

Southern Accents: In your new book, you identify "food, drink, and a festive environment" as the essential elements of a great party. How do you know when those pieces have all come together?
Carolyne Roehm:
If you are organized, you know it early on. Preparing in advance helps you get as close as possible to the goal of having a great party. A relaxed host helps as well.

Ultimately, you know it's a great party when you see smiling, happy, laughing guests. And I've learned that if you've provided good food, good drinks, a good environment, and you're in good spirits, you shouldn't worry -- the rest is up to the guests.

SA: When hosting a party, what are the five things you try to avoid?
CR:
First, not allowing time to pamper myself. I allow a half-hour before my guests arrive to get into the party mode.

Second, not having a plan. I always have a detailed plan for any dinner with more than eight guests.

Not leaving room for mistakes. I know that I need to have expansion room in case something doesn't arrive in time, for example, or there's a storm and the flowers that I planned to use are mutilated.

Not having a good seating scheme. It's not one of my favorite aspects of the party to coordinate, but it's vital. I always try to put a talker next to a nontalker or a relatively shy person next to an outgoing person.

Not having a schedule. I don't like for people to have to wait between courses, so it's important to go over timing and flow with waiters or other staff beforehand.

SA: What do you see as the emerging trends in entertaining?
CR:
I think that for several years now, we've gone through a period of minimalism that references earlier decades, paring things down with flowers, table settings, etc. Since trends are cyclical, I think that in time, we'll see more romantic trends -- a return to "lusciousness." Not grand or overdone, yet making a statement.

I also think people will entertain at home more. It seems that with baby boomers, there's a renewed interest in traditional things. We've done fine restaurants and evenings out. Now we want to stay at home and entertain.

SA: You are known for classic, impeccable taste in many areas. Can you comment on the relationship between fashion, entertaining, gardening, and interior design?
CR:
Whether you're designing a platter of food, a dress, a room, or a garden, the elements -- proportion, color, texture, line, and composition -- are always the same. For example, I've found that fashion designers usually have lovely homes and gardens. My point of view is consistent throughout all these media. I'm very much a classicist, which doesn't mean I'm over-the-top. I just like to have traditional elements in my design, and I think classicism implies a sense of balance.

SA: Can you tell us about some of the things that have inspired your parties?
CR:
I once found some great, half-price red lanterns in Chinatown and had the idea for a Chinese party. And I tend to find inspiration when I travel. I saw some great piņatas at a wedding in Santa Fe, and I know that someday, I'll do a party with piņatas. When I was in India, I bought a bunch of shawls that later became tablecloths at a party. I also once found some striped fabric at a remnant house in Paris that I sent back to the United States and then made into tablecloths.

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