Carolyne Roehm is an authority on matters of style,
from fashion to entertaining to gardening. The author, designer, and party
guru began her career as a designer at Oscar de la Renta, then turned her
attention to floral, product, and interior design, developing the
"Carolyne Roehm look" that is so easily identified in her
events. Here, she shares advice to help you create your own elegant
affairs.
Southern Accents: In your new book, you identify "food, drink, and a festive environment" as the essential
elements of a great party. How do you know when those pieces have all come
together?
Carolyne Roehm: If you are organized, you know it
early on. Preparing in advance helps you get as close as possible to the
goal of having a great party. A relaxed host helps as well.
Ultimately, you know it's a great party when
you see smiling, happy, laughing guests. And I've learned that if
you've provided good food, good drinks, a good environment, and
you're in good spirits, you shouldn't worry -- the rest is up
to the guests.
SA: When hosting a party, what are the five things
you try to avoid?
CR: First, not allowing time to pamper myself. I
allow a half-hour before my guests arrive to get into the party mode.
Second, not having a plan. I always have a detailed
plan for any dinner with more than eight guests.
Not leaving room for mistakes. I know that I need to
have expansion room in case something doesn't arrive in time, for
example, or there's a storm and the flowers that I planned to use are
mutilated.
Not having a good seating scheme. It's not one
of my favorite aspects of the party to coordinate, but it's vital. I
always try to put a talker next to a nontalker or a relatively shy
person next to an outgoing person.
Not having a schedule. I don't like for people
to have to wait between courses, so it's important to go over timing
and flow with waiters or other staff beforehand.
SA: What do you see as the emerging trends in
entertaining?
CR: I think that for several years now, we've
gone through a period of minimalism that references earlier decades, paring
things down with flowers, table settings, etc. Since trends are cyclical, I
think that in time, we'll see more romantic trends -- a return to "lusciousness." Not grand or overdone, yet making a statement.
I also think people will entertain at home more. It
seems that with baby boomers, there's a renewed interest in
traditional things. We've done fine restaurants and evenings out. Now
we want to stay at home and entertain.
SA: You are known for classic, impeccable taste in
many areas. Can you comment on the relationship between fashion,
entertaining, gardening, and interior design?
CR: Whether you're designing a platter of food,
a dress, a room, or a garden, the elements -- proportion, color, texture,
line, and composition -- are always the same. For example, I've found
that fashion designers usually have lovely homes and gardens. My point of
view is consistent throughout all these media. I'm very much a
classicist, which doesn't mean I'm over-the-top. I just like to
have traditional elements in my design, and I think classicism implies a
sense of balance.
SA: Can you tell us about some of the things that
have inspired your parties?
CR: I once found some great, half-price red lanterns
in Chinatown and had the idea for a Chinese party. And I tend to find
inspiration when I travel. I saw some great piņatas at a wedding in
Santa Fe, and I know that someday, I'll do a party with
piņatas. When I was in India, I bought a bunch of shawls that later
became tablecloths at a party. I also once found some striped fabric at a
remnant house in Paris that I sent back to the United States and then made
into tablecloths.