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Assigning connotations to plants, flowers, and herbs to circumvent the strict social code, lovelorn Victorians cultured an enduring "language of flowers"
Each flower and herb in this arrangement has a particular significance. With parsley, rosemary, mint, sage, mimosa, tulips, ranunculus, jasmine vine, muscari, heather, and hyacinth, the cheerful bouquet symbolizes love, celebration, and endurance.
In the Victorian era, this bouquet of lavender blossoms and foliage could hold a double meaning.
by Lucy Anderson
Photos by Becky Luigart-Stayner


"There is a language 'little known,'
Lovers claim it as their own.
Its symbols smile upon the land,
Wrought by nature's wondrous hand;
And in their silent beauty speak,
Of life and joy, to those who seek
For Love Divine and sunny hours
In the language of the flowers."

So wrote a poet in 1913 known only by his initials, FWL, and his signature, "Father." Long linked with lovers and poets, flowers present a mythology of innuendoes. One of the earliest assignations comes from the Chinese, for whom the lotus flower symbolized perfect truth and purity.

The Romantics also explored the symbolism of blooms, praising flowers and identifying with them in memorable works. Wordsworth famously glorified a field of daffodils. Keats likened his love's brow to a lily and her cheeks to a fading rose. But it was the Victorians who cultured an entire system of connotations, eventually yielding the "Language of Flowers."

So discreet was courtship during the Victorian era that a man could not publicly declare his love for a woman, nor could she respond in kind. Lovelorn Victorians found they could circumvent the social code with carefully chosen flowers. They exchanged bouquets containing secret messages. The number of leaves on a branch might indicate the date and time of a rendezvous, for example, while the blooms themselves expressed the sender's feelings.

Thus the language of flowers was born, and lists began to circulate. An orchid meant ecstasy; the sweet pea signified lasting pleasure; a daffodil stood for chivalry; the violet was a pledge of faithfulness; a red rose represented true love. But not all meanings were encouraging. The narcissus suggested egotism and the buttercup expressed ingratitude. The yellow rose spoke of jealousy, while the dahlia told of instability.

To make the code even more enigmatic, flowers often had double or contradictory meanings. The amaryllis could mean pride or timidity. Delphiniums indicated either a flight of fancy or an ardent attachment. Lavender could impart distrust or loyalty. Decoding these bouquets became something of a parlor game -- quite the rage of the prim and proper era.

The code slipped from popularity as social norms relaxed, but some flowers have retained their significance -- especially those associated with love and romance. For example, fennel placed in a bride's bouquet proclaims her "worthy of all praise." Peppermint relays warmth of feeling, and sage implies domestic virtue. Stephanotis, another popular wedding flower, stands for marital happiness.

When considering a bouquet, modern-day romantics and poets may revisit the language of flowers to lend a special touch. Here is a list of meaningful flowers and herbs, courtesy of floral designer Sybil Sylvester.


HERB/FLOWER SIGNIFICANCE
Heather Admiration
Hyacinth Playful joy
Jasmine Good nature
Marjoram Blushes
Mimosa Sensitivity
Mint Feeling of warmth
Muscari Usefulness
Pansy Loving thoughts
Parsley Festivity
Buttercup Childishness and ingratitude
Rosemary Remembrance
Sage Domestic virtue
Scented geranium Preference
Sweet pea Lasting pleasure
Thyme Courage and strength
Tulip Declaration of love


RESOURCES: Sybil Sylvester, Wildflower Designs, 2829 Second Ave. S., Ste. 10, Birmingham, AL 35233, 205/322-1311, www.wildflowerdesigns.net.


RELATED BOOKS: Tussie-Mussies: The Victorian Art of Expressing Yourself in the Language of Flowers by Gerladine Adamich Laufer; The Language of Flowers: Symbols and Myths by Marina Heilmeyer; Language of Flowers by Kate Greenaway.
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